Seniors gathered at the Highland Park Adult Senior Citizen Center Feb. 12 for a Valentine’s Day dance featuring music, dancing and social activities, according to attendees and organizers.
Daisy Buena, who has worked at the senior center for nearly three years, said the event grows each year and offers seniors an opportunity to engage socially.
“This is my third Valentine’s Day event with the seniors, and honestly, I think it’s the biggest one yet,” Buena said. “Seniors love to dress up, party and take home little gifts, like a single carnation — it brings back memories from when they were younger.”
Buena said events like the Valentine’s Day dance have a significant impact on seniors’ emotional well-being.
“A lot of seniors come in kind of depressed, looking for a new routine or something to look forward to,” Buena said. “They enjoy classes and events like this because it gives them a reason to get out of the house and celebrate.”
According to Buena, Valentine’s Day can be a way to show appreciation beyond romantic relationships.
“I just think it’s a way to show love, even just for the people you know and care about,” Buena said.
Marlene Reyes, who works with Arroyo Vista Family Health Center, was present at the event to promote local health services and said her participation reflected the clinic’s engagement with the local community.
“It’s a great space for community,” Reyes said. “I love to see all the folks here dancing, spending time with each other. The seniors are lively and talkative, and they come to my table to ask questions. It’s wonderful that there’s a space dedicated for them.”
According to Reyes, the event encourages seniors to connect with friends, family and neighbors.
“For me, Valentine’s Day is a day to honor love and friendship,” Reyes said. “It’s a nice day to remember and be intentional about those you care about.”
Rosa Brizuela, a regular attendee, said she comes to the dance to maintain social activity and stave off loneliness.
“I usually get into depression if I don’t get out of the house,” Brizuela said. “At this age, we don’t have many events. This is the one we really enjoy.”
According to Brizuela, the dance floor is a place of freedom.
“When I was younger, I had to follow my parents’ rules,” Brizuela said. “Now I feel free — I can dance, jump and do whatever I want.”
According to Brizuela, companionship later in life relies on sensitivity, respect and understanding.
“We have to be more sensitive and respectful of each other because we’re all different,” Brizuela said. “Sometimes we have little discussions, but it’s better to be here than at home alone.”
Barbara Irigoyen, who attended with her husband, Johnny Irigoyen, said the event allows couples to celebrate long-term relationships and shared history.
“For me, Valentine’s Day means love,” Irigoyen said. “It’s special because you take time for your partner. Every moment is a gift, and we treasure it together.”
According to Irigoyen, her decades-long relationship with her husband has persisted through family connection, patience and faith.
“Our parents introduced us,” Irigoyen said. “I prayed for a husband for 10 years, and I got him. We married when I was 30, and we’ve been helping each other ever since — 56 years now.”
According to attendees, events like the Valentine’s Day dance foster personal connections and joy.
Buena said even small gestures, like handing out flowers, make a lasting impression.
“My favorite part is seeing their appreciation,” Buena said. “Even if they don’t say anything, you can see it on their faces. They’re smiling extra wide when they leave.”
Brizuela said dancing and socializing at the event allows seniors to stay engaged with their peers and the broader community.
“This is the fun thing for us,” Brizuela said. “Now is the time for us to enjoy ourselves.”
According to Reyes, the dance offers seniors a chance to celebrate in a safe, welcoming environment and to maintain relationships beyond the home.
“It’s more than just dancing,” Reyes said. “It’s about building relationships, enjoying each other’s company, and celebrating love in all its forms.”
Contact Samhita Krishnan at krishnan@oxy.edu
